I JUST posted this on my forum, but want to make sure all of my blog readers get the heads up and do not miss their chance-

I have been trying to develop a way that I can pass on my PUA skills to you guys in the coolest and most effective way possible.

I have been into the Pick Up scene for almost 5 years. In that time I went from a depressed overweight guy who was divorced at 25, to attracting and dating some amazing women, teaching alongside Neil Strauss aka Style for years at The Stylelife Academy and coaching thousands of men across the world in all areas of seduction.

I was known as the ALPHA MALE around Stylelife, and only decided to get into online dating because I thought it would be a cool topic to teach at a conference. I then took MONTHS trying crack the code of online dating using the tools I had developed thru my unique style of pick up.

Soon I was having girls message me almost daily, and these were some HOT ass chicks, and began having some insane nights (a few of the craziest LRs can be found on my forum)

After I taught it at the Spring Conference Neil came up to me and said it was the best presentation he had ever seen, and that even though our normal policy was NOT to speak at outside events, when anyone called to see if we would for now on, he was going to have ME teach Online Game.

…still mind blowing

I have since overhauled the entire system into what I am calling Online Game 2.0

The problem I faced was trying to figure out a way to get the information out of my brain and into your guy’s brains.

So I developed a NEW system on how to do that

The OLD way
-e-books
(I still have never in my life finished reading one of these and hate them, have to back them up in case your computer crashes, sucks reading on laptops)

-DVDs
(Waiting 3 months for them to show up, poor quality, very hard to rewatch and find the section you want, having to HIDE THEM so guests don’t see them)

-CD’s
(who the fuck even buys CDs any more?)

Not only do I NOT buy CD’s anymore, I am done buying DVDs and books!

Since I am the most ACTIVE and reachable MPUA I decided that if I ever DID make a product I had to do it in the coolest format I could.

So I did

The problem= even though I think it is awesome, you guys might not.

So I need your help

I need some beta testers.

This may totally not work out, and I may have to make some DVDs if I ever want to get my Online Game 2.0 out there, but I hope with some feedback and help that won’t happen.

SO what I decided to do is have a contest to pick 3 BETA testers.

If you are selected you will actively work with me on making this as awesome as possible.

You will get my cell phone number, we will talk on the phone, I will help you learn my Online Dating System totally for free, to see if this works.

Now onto the HUGE 2 conditions-

1. Since I only want someone who is eager to learn and push the boundaries there is a contest that is starting RIGHT NOW. You must go out this weekend and get a picture of you having fun, doing something crazy, making out with a chick, having sex with a chick (cock free pic please) SOMETHING AWESOME and EPIC. In the pic you must be giving the Vulcan “live long and prosper” hand sign (it doesn’t have to be the focus of the pic, just in it so I can tell it is for this contest)

So not only do you get to have a chance at winning, but you also have an excuse to go out and have some fun!

2. Since it always bugs me when people do contests like this and “randomly” pic a winner, and it turns out the winner is NOT random, OR many times a guy who just swooped in and won, I am only letting members of my forum enter this contest. Furthermore I am only allowing GOLD MEMBERS enter.

http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=313

THOSE are the guys who are supporting the forum, giving back to others, and because of that get a shot at winning.
like I said in the GOLD NAME thread, you don’t have to be a GOLD NAME to be on my forum, but for the guys who help support the site and support me, sure as shit I am going to try and do cool stuff for them back

So that is the deal, post 1 awesome pic in this thread, GOLD NAMERS only, giving the Vulcan hand sign

the contest ends on Sept 7th at midnight (more time for Labor Day)

I will then pick 3 winners and we will work together and see if this whole thing works out

First off I want to applogize for the delay in this, the third installment of ASK THE ALPHA MALE.

I have never taken a computer class in my life, and running this blog, programming and running my NEW FORUM (just broke 101 members today) and working on my ONLINE COURSE (trying to make it awesome and different from all the other shit out there, no e-books that you never read, no waiting months for a crappy DVD to show up) is taking up WAY more time than I thought it would.

I have also been doing a ton more personal coaching, which is really what I love and why I first got into this. (three guys got laid last week)

AND of course I have been kicking my online game into overdrive so I have even more things to teach, I even signed up for MORE online dating sites and am testing those out as well as social networking sites.

Anyways, enough excuses here is episode 3

Thanks again for tuning in, and 1 change from the last episodes. For now on if you have a question you want me to answer, post it BELOW as a comment and I will answer as many as I can next week.

-Going to the Bozo the Clown book signing here in Hollywood at 4pm today with Topher. A great friend of mine, Scott McKenzie wrote it, Neil Strauss published it, make sure to say HI if you see me!

It almost gets too easy on dating sites.

Gone are the days where I would send out 100′s of messages, checking to see when they or IF they were read, hoping a girl would respond.

Now all I do is either message a few who checked me out first, or just respond to them after they message me first!

(I never thought that was even possible)

Even though I have been in “The Game” for years, it wasnt until the last year that I really started working on mastering Online Game. It is also kind of funny that me, the PUA who is known for his direct, alpha, and cocky type of game was also the best at picking up girls with a computer.

Haven’t even been active on it for the last week, and stuff like this STILL comes to me almost daily.

Subject: Dammit! I’m a stripper, bartender…

… waitress, aspiring actress, Scorpio, AND have implants

No wait. None of that is true.

Where do you karaoke in Korea Town? I have heard Brass Monkey is pretty fun,

but have never been. There are a few great places in Little Tokyo, though. Just

don’t ask me the names, I never remember.

Your cat is adorable. I have a 5 year old Manx (tailless) named Henry Miller,

but we all call him Hens.

You do look good in red.

I hope you are having a fabulous Friday.

Cheers,

xxxxx

Love the red tie lol

Hi

No waitresses? for shame

Hi

what’s makes u an alpha male ?

Subject: Awwww so close

I thought I was in until you said ….or you dress your dog in clothes lmao. Hey a girl needs a hobby Well if you’ll excuse me putting him in a halloween costume, I promise I won’t bring him to accessorize any outfits.

Hope you’re having a nice day.

xxx

Hey

You seem very interesting from your profile but then you get to the end and it seems like you have a lot of baggage and are a little judge mental. Did I judge you right or am I way off. My name is xxxx by the way and I tend to get along with ***holes

I am not a bartender or a Scorpio…

Hey there…

I was browsing through profiles and absolutley loved your sarcasm. I think most people take themselves way too seriously…I loved your pre-reqs to not message you, I am not any of those things…so I think we are safe to chat

I would lvoe to learn more about you because I think we have a lot in common.

I am pretty much an open book, so if there is anything you would like to know about me…just ask =)

Enjoy your weekend…

xxx

oh yes…just wondering is your pic by the streetlights from in front of MOCA? I love that place! =)

my response to that last message and her follow up-

“I am pretty much an open book, so if there is anything you would

like to know about me…just ask =)”

ok

when was the last time you had really good sex?

-Steve

Hi Steve…

Wow…so you are a little forward, but that’s ok. I guess that beats the “What’s your fave movie?” =P

hmm…2 months ago…and same question to you…

Love the pics by the way

Happy Friday,

xxxx

So if I put together a special program walking you thru step by step EXACTLY what I do to make this happen, would you guys want to know more?

I have already taught hundreds of men how to properly use online dating to get what they want (a girlfriend or laid) but this would be my absolute most up to date tactics

I was even testing some new things on a forum I frequent, and if you go to my ABOUT page on here, you can read from a few guys who used what I taught them to get some amazing results.

BKViper-

I ran across a post of Bravo’s on an internet discussion forum, where he talked about ways to stand out and get women to respond to you on internet dating sites.

As with most things, I was pretty skeptical. I’ve heard plenty of guys claiming to be a super stud, only to turn out to be a loser dud.

After following the discussion for several days and seeing other members replying and claiming they had used the methods he was promoting, and were now getting noticed by women, I started to get a peaked interest.

To be completely honest though, I decided to move forward with his advice, half because I figured what the hell, anything is worth a shot, and the other half thinking I can expose this guy and those replies a probably his best friends backing him up.

So, I diligently followed his advice, word for word. I wasn’t going to mess this up by slightly changing something and leave him a door to blame any failure on my changes.

Up to that point, I had been on this particular dating site for a few months and had only gotten a handful of replies, and only a couple worth even replying to, using a profile I created myself, and thought was pretty good.

I replaced this all with the suggestions Bravo had made.

Within 3 hours I had 2 replies, both from cute looking girls!

Oh well, even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while, right?

I went to bed that night slightly intrigued with the 2 ladies that had suddenly shown an interest in me.

The next day I was busy and didn’t get to check online until late in the evening. Not even 24 hours had passed, and when I logged in I was shocked. I had 17 women who had send my messages! And at least 6 of them were very attractive girls that seemed to offer other great attributes, like shared interests, good humor, and similar goals.

I was blown away. Consider me a skeptic no more.

I sent my profile to Bravo and he suggested a few more tweaks for me to make. I can’t wait to see how they work out. If it works as well as his initial help did, I’m going to have to forgo some of my personal activities, so that I have more time for dating.

Bravo is the real deal. I am a skeptic no more.

So let me know IF this is something you want to master. What sticking points have you run into, and anything else that you want to know and I will make sure that I teach you how to overcome them all.

Once again, this video should NOT be online, and will not be surprised if it is removed soon.

Video set up=

When the Stylelife gang went down to Miami Beach last year to PROVE that pick up works across the US, we also decided to PROVE that canned routines still work.

I was going out all day shooting, taking a nap, then going out and shooting all night. It actually was a lot of work and very stressful. Think about how you feel opening a set, worried that other people are going to see. Now think how it would feel to have it video taped, knowing that Style is going to watch it, all your friends will, and it will be online forever…that is pressure.

But still I wanted to have fun with it, so even though I personally do NOT use canned and scripted game when picking up, I wanted to demo it, because in my opinion every guy who gets into pick up needs to learn it. So instead of asking the 5 oceans opener, I decided to dumb it down and make it the 1 ocean opener.

Now if I was just running my natural & direct style of game, I would have taken a MUCH different path, including when she brought up her ethnic background. But because I was trying to demo a solid stack I stuck to the scripts and plowed, and you can see that it worked out pretty well. She did ask WHY I was asking this, and the reason why is because I didn’t root it, which I usually do not do. I don’t like doing anymore work than I have to do and very rarely gets asked WHY I am doing something. You can also see that it wasn’t a big deal.

So the ocean opener that worked at night also worked during the day, just as well. As did noticing her rings (possible ring routine) and talking about astrology (which I hate).

Discussion welcome below

This ACTIVE Google Voice Link Removed (wow that was fast)- keep checking back for more of these to get a free call too!

edit- just hid ANOTHER one on my website somewhere, if you can find it first you win a FREE coaching call-read the comments below to see when someone finds it and I take it down

Here is the second episode of Ask the Alpha Male.

Thanks again to everyone who emailed in questions. I had to re-shoot it, the first one ended up being almost twenty minutes long, and even with this one I had to cut a question out.

This one is less about ME and full of tips and advice about how to deal with a wingman that is messing your shit up, one of the best things I ever purchased for my place, my favorite gun, and how to deal with a chick who keeps texting you but never follows thru on setting up a date.

Let me know what you guys think, and anything you want more or less of.

I am going to start picking questions for the 3rd vid soon, so email soon if you want to try and get it answered next week- BravoPUA@gmail.com with the subject line ASK THE ALPHA MALE.

Always knew The Fonz was a PUA!

and good rule of thumb, when not sure what your next move should be with a girl, is it something Richie Cunningham would do? (an AFC)

Keep calling her

Keep texting her

Make the first date a giant event

Send flowers to her work after the 1st date

Tell her you don’t want to have sex, but just cuddle with her

Not eat her out because it is YUCKY

Loan her money

Babysit her kid while she goes out with another guy

or something The Fonz would do?

doesn’t care if he never hears back from a chick, he has 5 more on the hook

hanging out with him IS the giant even on the date

lives above a garage with someone ELSE’s parents and still gets chicks

doesn’t have to drop $ to impress a chick

(this is line of thinking is what originated WWBD)

I was almost overwhelmed with all the questions I received from you guys (and a few girls) last week when I wrote about a new feature I am going to have each week.

ASK THE ALPHA MALE

I thought I would be lucky to get a handful, so thank you to everyone who emailed me, and if I didn’t pick you this time, feel free to resubmit.

I was able to get thru a few questionsin this first video, and also a little bit about my background, why I got into Pick Up, how I started working for Neil Strauss, and what qualifies me as an ALPHA MALE

The questions I picked are about how to choose between 2 girls, if marital arts help your game, and more-

I hope everyone enjoys it, and if you have a question you want me to try and respond to next week email me at BravoPUA@gmail.com with the subject line ASK THE ALPHA MALE

Using one of those cool GOOGLE tools to make my site awesome.

Then I saw this-

Click on it to make it bigger

Well Google is the boss of the internet so guess I have to do it…

(Actually these are tips that EVERY guy should take to heart)

Before I got married, I was pretty successful with women…but after my divorce I felt like I had lost all my Mojo. It was like I broke my back and had to learn to walk again. Then I read, THE GAME, and my life was changed forever. I felt like a secret had just been shared with me, and I was willing to do whatever it took to transform my life.

One of the biggest sticking points I was going to undertake was rebuilding my identity, specifically my look/style.This was perhaps the toughest part of my journey. I definitely had a look…the problem was that it wasn’t a look that women responding to positively. The shirts I owned that I considered “cool” at the time were purchased years ago, some dating as far back as high school! Here are 7 tips that I used to rebuild my look, which helped boost my confidence to go out and start sarging.

BRAVO’S FASHION TIP #1:

Fashion and style are always evolving and changing. If you haven’t changed or upgraded some parts of your wardrobe over the last couple of years, chances are you could use a trip to the clothing store for new shoes, shirts and jeans. I think back to high school when I hated clothes shopping with a passion. It was because I was doing it all wrong. Normally I would go out and spend the whole day trying on stuff and dropping a ton of money; not any more…

BRAVO’S FASHION TIP #2:

Look around every few weeks for something cool and new. It’s much easier to run in and try on 2-3 shirts or a pair of jeans, and still have the rest of the day to do other things. This also ensures that you constantly have new items working their way into your wardrobe so you don’t wear the same 3 shirts each weekend. During my fashion-troubled days, I was heavily into doing the tactical training stuff. My image remained static and unchanging. I always had the same look which included short hair, combat boots, cargo pants, and a big, thick, nylon belt. If my day’s activities involved going to battle, I was dressed for the occasion. However, if talking to woman was on the agenda…well let’s just say they weren’t digging it.

BRAVO’S FASHION TIP #3:

While your clothing should help convey your interests and career, they shouldn’t be totally based off these things. The key is being able to maintain your identity and interest without compromising a look that is in style and aesthetically pleasing. Find out which clothes are cool by browsing through magazines like GQ or Esquire to find out what stores carry the stylish brands, then go find clothes in those stores that you like. In order to begin improving my look, I asked some females for fashion advice. It turns out women love talking about this stuff…a few of them even volunteered to help me shop! One common suggestion they all gave me was that I should buy some new shoes. Women love shoes. They take a lot of time choosing the shoes that they wear and they look for guys who do the same. Unfortunately, this went in one ear and out the other, I LIKED my boots! It wasn’t until a few years later I realized I should have listened…

BRAVO’S FASHION TIP #4:

Are you still wearing the same lame, beat up pair of sneakers you had 3 years ago? If so, consider this as the first item you replace when shopping for your new wardrobe. Even though I put up some resistance here, I did do a few things right away that got me on the proper path to my new look.

BRAVO’S FASHION TIP #5:

The first thing I did was stop getting an eight dollar haircut where the lady just used an electric trimmer. It is worth it to go to a nicer place where they take their time on each customer, giving you a haircut that is customized for you. I also started to grow some facial hair, for a week it didn’t look so good, but once it grew in, the compliments began rolling in and I knew I was on to something!

The complements made me want to take this further. I started to look around at cool T-shirts, lost my ancient pair of jeans from the nineties, and picked up a few accessories. My old definition of accessorizing was carrying a flashlight and pocket knife (always be prepared, right?) Now I was doing it with a cool necklace, a few rings, and a leather bracelet. Once again the compliments from girls kept rolling in and growing in numbers. I may have thought accessorizing was lame in the past, but the compliments were the part that got me over it. When the ladies love it, it’s all good in my book!

BRAVO’S  FASHION TIP #6:

Having accessories is a sure fire way to boost the coolness factor of any outfit. Consider watches, necklaces, bracelets, rings, wrist bands, ties, scarves, wallet chains, and any other jewelry or fun extra you can think of. Experiment to see which ones you enjoy and which fit your new look.

Once you start to get into this stuff, you’ll develop your own fashion sense as your own personal style grows and evolves. I started buying shirts I would never have purchased before; my combat boots were replaced by pointy leather Italian shoes – with a matching leather belt taking over for the tactical belt. The last thing I will mention, and the last item of clothing I changed, was my underwear…

BRAVO’S  FASHION TIP #7:

Hanes tighty whiteys three pack for nine bucks is cool when you are in school, but we are men now. I got a few pairs of Calvin Klein briefs and trunks, and as soon as the ladies started seeing them, the comments started rolling in. Once again…all the proof I needed! My drawer is now loaded with them.If you’re getting unsolicited, positive feedback on your looks from beautiful women, then you’re on the right track. Otherwise, take an honest look in the mirror and take stock in what your look tells women. It will take a little bit of work to transform yourself, but when you do, you will look in the mirror and see a pretty cool looking guy staring back at you. And, so will the beautiful women that will love the new you.