“Holy shit, I just had to call someone and share this, I am stuck in traffic on Fairfax and there is some fat homeless lady SHITTING in the gutter!”
“Well….welcome to LA!”
Anyone who has been stuck in LA traffic knows how insane it is- and just so you guys can fully appreciate it, here is a vid I took years ago where a handicapped dude with a wonked up leg, gets around faster than me in my truck!
Now that you know clearly how bad it is, this intersection is even worse, 3 lights later and I haven’t moved an inch.
So when she pulled down her filthy purple sweat pants and just started shitting away next to the CVS, I was stuck there for all of it’s glory.
As she started taking care of business, I looked around at all of the people who were also witnessing this horrible, HORRIBLE sight, and to see their reactions. (I at least wanted to get something good out of this!)
People in the cars around me either didn’t even see it (great level of awareness) or they pretended like they didn’t.
Just then a small group exited the CVS and turned left, heading right towards her……finally something good was going to come of this, the guys and the girl would see it and FREAK OUT resulting in lulz
….at least I imagined they would
Slowly they got closer….and closer…UNTIL
The girl moved her head a few inches to her right….then shot it straight forward again as they walked past her.
As soon as they got a few steps past the mad shitter, I saw her elbow the guy on the left, her eyes grow large and she mouthed the words
“OH MY GOD!”
They all looked over their shoulder for a second, turned around, exchanged a few words, but didn’t look back and didn’t stop walking.
So now one of the most horrible and disgusting sites I have ever witnessed in my life, only garnered a look and an elbow, thus resulting in me calling my friend to share it with her.
Afterwards it got me thinking, one of the BIGGEST fears guys have when approaching chicks is-
THE FEAR OF BEING WATCHED
What if people are watching me hit on her?
What if I get rejected in front of people?
What if they hear what I say?
Well here is some news for you
NO ONE GIVES A SHIT!
The dirty homeles lady TAKING A SHIT proved this!
There she was, shitting for the whole world to see and
Guess what, you know how you (currently or use to) walk around in your own bubble, with your head down, missing most of what goes on in the world, and worrying about everyone else judging you…
EVERYONE DOES THAT
and the people who don’t, don’t give a fuck about you, and they sure as fuck don’t give a shit about you walking over to a girl and hitting on her!
LOOK AT THAT HETROSEXUAL OVER THERE TALKING TO THAT HOT CHICK… LETS GET HIM BOYS!!!
So lesson #1 is
GET RID OF THAT IRRATIONAL FEAR ABOUT BEING WATCHED, YOU AREN’T THAT BIG OF A DEAL IN THEIR WORLD
Next up is the fear of rejection
When was the last time a dirty bum hit you up for some spare change?
How many times has this happened in your whole life?
(hard to remember isn’t it?)
I have gotten pretty good with my serious face throughout the years, homeless people usually know better than to ask me. I also really HATE it when those fuckers hit me up.
Ya let me GIVE you some of my money, that I worked hard for, so you can go eat, or more likely, go get some drugs- FOR FREE!!!
(but I will be honest, the last one who hit me up outside the UPS store had a dog and got 75 cents from me, using the sympathy pet card…well played you dirty bearded fuck…well played)
If a bum had AA or was scared of being rejected, he wouldn’t be able to eat, or score!
I usually just ignore them, but man have I heard some HORRIBLE shit said to them in my life!
So I have rejected, or flat out ignored more bums than I could even guess, but seconds later when I get in my car, I don’t give them a second thought.
EVEN if I did, all day, until I was in bed that night looking up at the ceiling, shaking a fist and screaming
“DAMN YOU YOU FILTHY BUM! HOW DARE YOU ASK ME FOR A QUARTER!!!!!”
it would have 0% effect on him and the rest of his life
I guarantee he has already forgotten about it, so the only place that it would “live on” is in my mind.
-and back to lesson #1, even if someone else saw it, they wouldn’t care either.
Just like us walking out of the grocery store, and we see the homeless guy start to snap into action, we kick into autopilot mode and deal with it and either blow him off, make an excuse, ignore him, or give him something.
EVERY other homeless guy before him has helped program our reaction.
So lets flip it, you approach some hottie and she blows you off.
EVERY other guy who has approached her had a hand her her reaction to you, so don’t take it personally.
2nd, if she does blow you out, seconds later she has ALREADY FORGOTTEN about you and isn’t giving you a 2nd thought, so why are you?
3rd even if she DID, all that night she kept fuming over the guy who talked to her and asked her about her opinion on something, she went home and took off her push up bra and fake eyelashes, and was looking in the mirror with bloodshot eyes full of anger towards you- you would’t even know and it has 0% effect on you.
So lesson #2 is
GET RID OF THAT POINTLESS FEAR OF REJECTION, IT’S GOING TO HAPPEN, IT DOESN’T MATTER, AND THE ONLY PLACE IT LIVES ON IS IN YOUR HEAD
guys were starting to message me asking how they could get in to the next PX…when I didn’t even know WHEN the next one was going to be!
So even though I have been busier than I have ever been before, coaching, with PX2, 1on1′s, speaking at Johnny’s seminar in Vegas, going there again soon for Sasha’s event, and driving to LA in a few hours from now for a CC seminar, I busted my ass to plan another Project X before it gets hot out here in Phoenix.
I have an important thing I have to tell you first, because I only select 6 guys to attend, I actually already promised dibs to a few guys who barely missed the cut for PX2….so technically if they take the spot I offered them, that means there are only 3 spots currently available, so if you are going to apply, do so ASAP!!!
(this is 100% true and not just a marketing trick)
HOW TO APPLY
But before I tell you how-to, here is some more information about what Project Xwill entail-
WHERE- in the Phoenix/Tempe/Scottsdale AZ area
WHEN- (last weekend in April)
Not having it in a boring and non-personal conference room
Booking a suite and adjoining room that will be ours for training/partying/and some sleeping (no need to waste $ on a hotel room)
Once you arrive in Phoenix, the hotel has a shuttle to and from the airport for FREE
All other transportation is taken care of (no need to rent a car)
Lunch and dinner will be on me ( good shit, sushi, steaks, etc)
ADDED Online Game -bring your laptop if you have one
ADDED PUA Magic-my most powerful and closely guarded secrets
ADDED Day Game
ADDED FASHION MAKEOVERS
Follow up conference call afterwards, to make sure everyone is still kicking ass
ONLY 6 students (with at LEAST 3 coaches…1/2 ratio)
STILL LESS than what other NO-NAMER PUAs charge, and they don’t teach/train for as many hours, and YOU have to cover hotel and food!!!
HOW TO APPLY TO PROJECT X-
Email me (address below)
Make the subject of the email “I want into PROJECT X“
The email MUST contain the following information (I don’t need PAGES, just a few paragraphs max)
Name (real name and PUA name)
Age (must be at least 21 years old)
Cell phone number
Number of sexual partners (only FULL closes count)
Previous PUA/self help training and how long you have been into THE GAME
Why you want to attend
What you hope to gain from attending
Your biggest sticking points
A recent picture
How you heard about PROJECT X
Since we will be LIVING together the whole time, I have to make sure only the best and most deserving get in. (unlike the other guys, MY decisions aren’t controlled by the $) and I also have to take the group dynamics into account, so this is a lot more work for me, but trust me you, if you are here you will be very thankful!
I will then go thru each email ASAP and pick the guys I think will get the most out of this and tell you how to sign up, you then will have 24 hours to do so, if I don’t hear back then I will move on to another applicant and give them the once in a lifetime opportunity to attend.
After a crushing miscarriage and divorce, I started my self improvement journey.
Shortly after, I read THE GAME, became Style's HEAD COACH at his PUA Academy, travelled the world teaching guys how to pick up women, and was written about in his follow up best seller RULES OF THE GAME.
In 2010 it was clear that what I was teaching was MORE than just Pick Up, so I started this site and have helped even more guys, on a deeper level improve their lives.
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