….I have a rough life, but I do it all for you guys!
“NICE guys” love to try and get on their moral high horse when getting into pick up. They develop a set of beliefs about what is RIGHT and what is WRONG, either thru crappy love movies, bad advice from women, or just from their distorted imagination about what women want.
One of the most frustrating things, as a coach, is trying to break thru this….getting them to realize they don’t understand women and to drop all of their incorrect and unsubstantiated beliefs.
So while we were laying in bed after sex, and the conversation started to go down this path, I thought hearing it from a woman might help some of you- so quickly grabbed my camera! (which of course is always strategically places near my bed)
We already talked about my job and everything I do, and we also made some videos after this…further proving that she was a NAUGHTY girl just WAITING for a man to come along and make her feel safe enough to share her inner slut, which I was happy to help.
Which leads into another important lesson. The sex toy industry is already over 4 BILLION dollars a year, which is a market dominated by women (toys for women / porn for men)- how much more proof do guys need that women WANT sex!!!
Lastly the audio also proves that being 100% open and honest with your intentions can lead to some amazing experiences.
Isn’t it about time you learn how to be the man they are playing with themselves every night thinking about?
“Holy shit, I just had to call someone and share this, I am stuck in traffic on Fairfax and there is some fat homeless lady SHITTING in the gutter!”
“Well….welcome to LA!”
Anyone who has been stuck in LA traffic knows how insane it is- and just so you guys can fully appreciate it, here is a vid I took years ago where a handicapped dude with a wonked up leg, gets around faster than me in my truck!
Now that you know clearly how bad it is, this intersection is even worse, 3 lights later and I haven’t moved an inch.
So when she pulled down her filthy purple sweat pants and just started shitting away next to the CVS, I was stuck there for all of it’s glory.
As she started taking care of business, I looked around at all of the people who were also witnessing this horrible, HORRIBLE sight, and to see their reactions. (I at least wanted to get something good out of this!)
People in the cars around me either didn’t even see it (great level of awareness) or they pretended like they didn’t.
Just then a small group exited the CVS and turned left, heading right towards her……finally something good was going to come of this, the guys and the girl would see it and FREAK OUT resulting in lulz
….at least I imagined they would
Slowly they got closer….and closer…UNTIL
The girl moved her head a few inches to her right….then shot it straight forward again as they walked past her.
As soon as they got a few steps past the mad shitter, I saw her elbow the guy on the left, her eyes grow large and she mouthed the words
“OH MY GOD!”
They all looked over their shoulder for a second, turned around, exchanged a few words, but didn’t look back and didn’t stop walking.
So now one of the most horrible and disgusting sites I have ever witnessed in my life, only garnered a look and an elbow, thus resulting in me calling my friend to share it with her.
Afterwards it got me thinking, one of the BIGGEST fears guys have when approaching chicks is-
THE FEAR OF BEING WATCHED
What if people are watching me hit on her?
What if I get rejected in front of people?
What if they hear what I say?
Well here is some news for you
NO ONE GIVES A SHIT!
The dirty homeles lady TAKING A SHIT proved this!
There she was, shitting for the whole world to see and
Guess what, you know how you (currently or use to) walk around in your own bubble, with your head down, missing most of what goes on in the world, and worrying about everyone else judging you…
EVERYONE DOES THAT
and the people who don’t, don’t give a fuck about you, and they sure as fuck don’t give a shit about you walking over to a girl and hitting on her!
LOOK AT THAT HETROSEXUAL OVER THERE TALKING TO THAT HOT CHICK… LETS GET HIM BOYS!!!
So lesson #1 is
GET RID OF THAT IRRATIONAL FEAR ABOUT BEING WATCHED, YOU AREN’T THAT BIG OF A DEAL IN THEIR WORLD
Next up is the fear of rejection
When was the last time a dirty bum hit you up for some spare change?
How many times has this happened in your whole life?
(hard to remember isn’t it?)
I have gotten pretty good with my serious face throughout the years, homeless people usually know better than to ask me. I also really HATE it when those fuckers hit me up.
Ya let me GIVE you some of my money, that I worked hard for, so you can go eat, or more likely, go get some drugs- FOR FREE!!!
(but I will be honest, the last one who hit me up outside the UPS store had a dog and got 75 cents from me, using the sympathy pet card…well played you dirty bearded fuck…well played)
If a bum had AA or was scared of being rejected, he wouldn’t be able to eat, or score!
I usually just ignore them, but man have I heard some HORRIBLE shit said to them in my life!
So I have rejected, or flat out ignored more bums than I could even guess, but seconds later when I get in my car, I don’t give them a second thought.
EVEN if I did, all day, until I was in bed that night looking up at the ceiling, shaking a fist and screaming
“DAMN YOU YOU FILTHY BUM! HOW DARE YOU ASK ME FOR A QUARTER!!!!!”
it would have 0% effect on him and the rest of his life
I guarantee he has already forgotten about it, so the only place that it would “live on” is in my mind.
-and back to lesson #1, even if someone else saw it, they wouldn’t care either.
Just like us walking out of the grocery store, and we see the homeless guy start to snap into action, we kick into autopilot mode and deal with it and either blow him off, make an excuse, ignore him, or give him something.
EVERY other homeless guy before him has helped program our reaction.
So lets flip it, you approach some hottie and she blows you off.
EVERY other guy who has approached her had a hand her her reaction to you, so don’t take it personally.
2nd, if she does blow you out, seconds later she has ALREADY FORGOTTEN about you and isn’t giving you a 2nd thought, so why are you?
3rd even if she DID, all that night she kept fuming over the guy who talked to her and asked her about her opinion on something, she went home and took off her push up bra and fake eyelashes, and was looking in the mirror with bloodshot eyes full of anger towards you- you would’t even know and it has 0% effect on you.
So lesson #2 is
GET RID OF THAT POINTLESS FEAR OF REJECTION, IT’S GOING TO HAPPEN, IT DOESN’T MATTER, AND THE ONLY PLACE IT LIVES ON IS IN YOUR HEAD
Like many of you after I finished reading The Game, I thought WHAT IF…
What if I could master the art of Pick Up and the skills of Attraction
What if I could get the balls to walk right up to a beautiful girl and talk to her
What if I could seduce her
What if I could make her a girlfriend (s)
What if I could finally start living the life I always dreamed about
The problem was, we didn’t know where to start or where to go.
Then after a little time on Google, we’d stumbled upon a site that offered us a chance to MASTER THE GAME, the only problem was a rushed together E-Book or a crappy set of DVDs isn’t going to do shit to help us in the long run!
(Luckily for me, I got into this years ago and did’t have to deal with as many scammers and liars as you do.)
But the biggest WHAT IF of them all, the one I, and pretty sure ALL of you dreamed about, was never even offered before?
*fuck I feel cheesy writing that
What did we all dream being a part of, so we could not only MASTER everything I listed above, but even MORE
Too bad it was already LONG GONE by the time you finished reading about it.
So I had to develop my own version of it, I could rebuild it, make it stronger…faster
I used all the knowledge I have gained in my years learning THE GAME
From teaching across the world, helping THOUSAND of men, running sold out seminars and bootcamps, and working with/teaching/partying with the WHO’s WHO of OG’ers from THE GAME
Using the skills I learned before Pick Up, where I taught military and law enforcement across the United States the skills they needed to survive
From being married, going thru a divorce, and all the girls I have dated before and after
Running a yoga studio focusing on health and wellness
-I forget that I have done all that sometimes
SO I have been spending years thinking about what my DREAM program would contain
and now for the first time can publicly share a little bit of what I am calling
It’s not a seminar
not a bootcamp
Quiet and private place to learn at- CHECK
Low student to instructor ratio- CHECK
Near bars, clubs, coffee shops, malls, busy sidewalks to practice DAY and NIGHT game- CHECK
GOOD food- CHECK
Transportation to and from the airport- CHECK
Place to sleep, after party (and use for sexy time)- CHECK
Learning from one of the TOP MASTER PUAs in The Game today- CHECK
Having me as your personal wing while in field- CHECK
Proven routines and top secret tips and tricks taught that you can use that night- CHECK
On the fly adjustments to cover exactly what you need and want, not stuff you already know- CHECK
Charging WAY less than what I could in this industry- CHECK
Money back guarantee- CHECK
TOP SECRET ALPHA MALE adventures- CHECK
and that is just some of it!
Let me summarize all of that for ya
You cover getting here and your spot in this course, and everything else is taken care of, for less than what others charge, who offer WAY less than I, and we basically live together for 3 days EATING AND BREATHING pick up and alpha-ness
Now the disclaimer
This might be a horrible idea, I might lose my ass doing this, maybe I test it out and it is just too much for me to handle and I never offer it again.
So what I am going to do is offer PROJECT X, ONLY ONCE, at a special discount to readers of my blog and my forum. Afterwards if the guys who are in it tell me it is even half as cool as I think it is, MAYBE I will offer it again, at the normal (still low) price.
This isn’t BS marketing spin, there is only 1 of me, I can only handle a handful of guys (since I always hold myself to the highest in professional standards), and a few of the spots are already RSVPed for guys who I have been doing long term coaching with (you can ask them about it on my forum)
So if this is something you want to make sure you hear about FIRST and want in, sign up on the upper right side of this page with your name and email address, and follow the steps, any questions post below. Once I launch this, it will be first come first serve, and only way I can do that fair is to blast it to my list at the same time. (you of course can keep checking back HERE to see if you beat me by the 10 mins it takes me to do that after I post)
After those spots are gone it will be closed.
And to give you a little more info, all I can share now is this will be happening in Phx and around 30-45 days from NOW
The contest we ran for the beta testers was a blast. I am currently putting the final touches on my new ONLINE GAME PROGRAM.
Guys have been posting on my forum, PMing me, emailing me, and Facebooking me asking for more info.
So making this post to answer those questions (and because I can just link you here
First off, I hate e-books. I have never read an entire one, and can’t stand it when someone asks a simple question they get directed to a 96page ebook to find the answer. I also have 1000′s of pages of ebooks saved which I am 100% sure I will never read.
That brings up my next point, saving this stuff on your computer. I love organizing my shit, but if the hard drive crashes, your laptop gets stolen, or there is a fire, you loose everything. That is why I made the switch to gmail and google docs a while ago, and helped all the other Stylelife coaches use it. In the cloud is the future. I even got rid of my TV years ago and have using Hulu, Netflix and torrents just fine. If you loose the DVD or scratch it you are fucked. If you want to just watch a small clip on it, it takes 20 mins to load it and fast forward to find it.
Which brings up the next point. How many people buy CDs anymore? DVDs? Video Games? Books? Those are all dying out. I transferred all my music to digital, and did the same with my favorite movies. I can access them instantly thru my PS3 for movie nights with the ladies. After my last move I wanted to get rid of most of my books, now with the iPad and kindle, so are others.
So all the shit that always bugged me about all the PUA products out there (besides most of them sucking and they guys selling them are just trying to make a quick buck) I decided not to do.
I had to figure out a way to get the information from my brain to your brain as efficiency and effectively as possible.
And I have to admit, I am really proud with the solution I came up with.
Almost everyone watches movies online, and for the few who haven’t you have at LEAST watched YouTube clips. So my ONLINE GAME training video will be available to you 24/7, instantly streaming. You can watch it as many times as you want, from where ever you want. This is my newest and most up to date tactics for getting girls on dating sites, how to pick the best site, and everything you need to pimp out your page.
Just a few of the tips from the video alone has led to results like this-
I ran across a post of Bravo’s on an internet discussion forum, where he talked about ways to stand out and get women to respond to you on internet dating sites.
As with most things, I was pretty skeptical. I’ve heard plenty of guys claiming to be a super stud, only to turn out to be a loser dud.
After following the discussion for several days and seeing other members replying and claiming they had used the methods he was promoting, and were now getting noticed by women, I started to get a peaked interest.
To be completely honest though, I decided to move forward with his advice, half because I figured what the hell, anything is worth a shot, and the other half thinking I can expose this guy and those replies a probably his best friends backing him up.
So, I diligently followed his advice, word for word. I wasn’t going to mess this up by slightly changing something and leave him a door to blame any failure on my changes.
Up to that point, I had been on this particular dating site for a few months and had only gotten a handful of replies, and only a couple worth even replying to, using a profile I created myself, and thought was pretty good.
I replaced this all with the suggestions Bravo had made.
Within 3 hours I had 2 replies, both from cute looking girls!
Oh well, even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while, right?
I went to bed that night slightly intrigued with the 2 ladies that had suddenly shown an interest in me.
The next day I was busy and didn’t get to check online until late in the evening. Not even 24 hours had passed, and when I logged in I was shocked. I had 17 women who had send my messages! And at least 6 of them were very attractive girls that seemed to offer other great attributes, like shared interests, good humor, and similar goals.
I was blown away. Consider me a skeptic no more.- BKViper
more can be found as comments on my blog
Also in the 1 hour vid I teach you how to transition OFF the website to the phone and later how to plan the dates.
The next issue I wanted to deal with was the lame ass E-BOOKS. Ever if you read thru it all you have to bookmark sections that are helpful, then have to hand type anything back out.
So I wanted any of the tips I type up for you guys, to be able to not only be read anytime and anywhere, but also so you could just copy/paste it directly to your page.
Need help with an ABOUT ME section on your profile? Here are proven examples I have used, just copy and maybe change 5 words to personalize!
And finally the biggest issue. Once you purchase a product, and the company has your money, they don’t give a shit about you or how you do. Hell just trying to get customer service on the phone for a change of address or refund sometimes seems impossible. So what I decided to do is incorporate my entire ONLINE GAME PROGRAM into my website and onto the most popular section, my forum.
I am really proud of my PUA forum, after running the Stylelife Forums for years (85,000+ members) I got to see the best and the worst of them. I also am the most active Master PUA on the forums and the most accessible to everyone.
So I wrapped everything together.
When you purchase my online game program you will get special access to a private section of my forum. In the section is my ONLINE GAME training video, which ALONE will take your digital game to the next level. But because this section is private we can all share and critique our personal pages, everyone will be adding to the body of knowledge so we always have to most up to date and cutting tactics, I have also posted some direct transcripts of conversations and routines I constantly use to build a connection.
You can also post any question you want, and get direct feedback from everyone else in this private section of ours.
Oh and the best part, a 1 time flat fee that is less than a few months on some of the current most popular dating sites.
The tips you will learn from me, will save you more money than that in the long run.
Anyways that is the update for now, I had a date with a girl from an online site yesterday, I have another one with a girl from a different sites today (one who contacted me first!) and am teaching and hanging at the PUA summit all weekend (if you come by please say HI, would like to grab lunch or dinner with some of the guys there)
I will be launching this program with a special discounted rate next week. If you want to be the first to know put your name and email in the box to the right of this post, so you don’t miss the introduction sale.
After a crushing miscarriage and divorce, I started my self improvement journey.
Shortly after, I read THE GAME, became Style's HEAD COACH at his PUA Academy, travelled the world teaching guys how to pick up women, and was written about in his follow up best seller RULES OF THE GAME.
In 2010 it was clear that what I was teaching was MORE than just Pick Up, so I started this site and have helped even more guys, on a deeper level improve their lives.
If you're ready to begin your transformation and want me to help, please visit my coaching page.