Texting 101...

[Taz]

NSM- I love that opener..going to test it out later on this week!

I also love how people are adding stuff along the way!

SomethingI got in an email the other day for no responses :

well it is obvious you were abducted by aliens...i hope they were the hot brad pitt looking kind and not the ugly green ones...when they return you give me a text i have a question for ya

[Honey Badger]

Thanks for the reply Taz.

She's a peculiar girl, which I find quite endearing and attractive. She mentioned "carousing like demon-owls" in a text a few days ago, so I called her a goblin-sparrow. If this fails, I'll just call her gollum. She's been very responsive so far, some of her texts have read like mini-essays, which I'm taking as a good sign.

I'll let you know how it goes.

Thanks again.

Honey Badger

[Taz]

After the flashchat last night with Smooth, it appears I I really did not clarify it to well if she does not respond or flakes....Well her are some more bits on that! ( But if you follow the seed invitation and built enough attraction/comfort, she should not have flaked in the first place)

Personally, I don't care as much, but if you are all about :

You can ignore it and act as it never happened, then ask her out again. Make sure the invite implies you have something super fun in store and be very direct: Hey, ( nick name) , What are you doing X nite? I have a crazy/fun idea

It does not matter what ever you have planned, it just seeds the idea that you are fun to get a long with and you word it that way!

Sometimes, shit happens and she will forget: So let her make it up to you if that is the case, but most of the case if she just flakes call her out and make her chase you!

Guess who has to wine and dine me since she missed out on a kick ass time last night? Yep..its you I would say that X day is looking pretty great

This tells her that she has to bring the game to the table, because you don't take nor like flakes...if she does it again on to the next one!

And on to the one that most guy seem to have trouble with..even myself....The dreaded no response:

As I have said in the first post: you must/need to go back and figure out a way to build more attraction!

How do you do this? Go lite and playful with it!

hey crazy face..are you still alive? should I send a search party of midget ninja's (or minja's as they prefer to be called) to come rescue you?!

What happened? Jeez am I gonna have to bail u outta jail again?

If after a week or more the # has gone cold..send her something random for one last try:

Hey, just been sorting out my phonebook and found out I have three [HER NAME]’s, which one are you......the crazy one, the hot one, or the shy suggestive one?

You were in my dream last night...weird

[silver tongue]

top stuff, Taz!
I've found with the "you were in my dream" comment they usually ask what happened in the dream. Any suggestions for that?
Recently I texted the dream line to a girl I SLN'd at the end of last year, after I really DID have a hot and steamy dream about her:

HB: What happened in the dream?
me: We were kissing, etc. It was exciting.
HB: it's fun!
me: yes, let's do it. Do you have time tonight or tomorrow?
HB: wow, this is a surprise.
me: I can't forget the dream.
HB: why can't you forget it? You have so many girls.
me: lol. everybody says that.

Turned out she had plans to meet a gf that night. And maybe I went too direct, too fast. But I figured we'd slept together before, and at least I was clear about my intentions.

[Taz]

Silver- The whole point about sexual dreams over text is that it allows you to set the frame as sexual before the meet up!

Although I am no expert, I have had some recent success in using this technique.

Since you already slept with her, you could of even taken it more sexual or threw a few innuendos in there!

Please see my thread on HB fitness model :

viewtopic.php?f=7&t=2583

There is a simple dirty dream technique in there you can follow and use or make up your own shit!

[NSM]

You can also take the, "I had a dream about you..." into a funny direction. Start laying it out like it's going to be a sexy dream then by the end of it you two are performing in a circus together while riding a unicorn with clowns running around and people swinging from trapeze and shit... And that's why her new nick name is Squeaky McBozo, cause that was her clown name.

[Maestro]

Squeaky McBozo, cause that was her clown name.

Shit, I almost chose that for my PUA name. Whew. That would've made this thread Awkward.

[KingOfAces]

hey taz, every time i text you, your response time is always slower than mine. does that mean you're not into me anymore???

[Taz]

I moved on KOA, Jersey just don't cut it....hahahha!

[KingOfAces]

I moved on KOA, Jersey just don't cut it....hahahha!

good luck finding a seaside tony in beantown!!! haha.