I believe Kramer was talking to Riddex, you narcisstic fuckers
If it's not an SNL, I say on every first date, exactly what's up. I frame it in a really positive way, and they are usually cool with it. In fact they appreciate the honesty.
If they aren't, who cares? There's always more bitches.
So why waste your time if they aren't up to your standard or lifestyle?
But if you know you aren't into them. It's almost cruel to keep their hopes up. Don't feel too bad though, we've all done it.
And in the end, you didn't make her do anything, she chose it of her own free will.
Plus, she's female, their hearts are made from liquid evil,