Kicking someone to curb sucks sometimes

[Stealth]

Kicking someone to the curb for being a cunt is fun.

Kicking someone to the curb because they are too attached to you, when they are a very sweet girl, fucking sucks. I feel like dog shit.

I made it even worse by stringing her along for a while just for the sex. I will never, NEVER do that again.

Don't do what I did, guys.

[Stealth]

^^^^ PS. me having strung her along for a while shows that I still have a scarcity mentality.

[SuperDave]

I kinda just did the same thing but I was honest with the girl and told her I didn't want anything serious. She was cool at first then we had sex last night and the conversation came up about being in a relationship.

Haven't heard from her since she left. I wish her the best and hope I left her better than I found her.

[Kramer]

GIve her time, if you fucked her well, she''ll be back.

[Boom]

Kramer, don't think stealth wants her to come back.... she was too attached, and not what he was looking for.

And I've had to do the same thing brother, it sucks, but you know what you want in life. Every once in a while you have to break a few hearts, but it would be a hell of a lot easier if they were all cunts.

[Xerces]

It is always better in my opinion to drop them as soon as you notice it becoming what you dont want.

You know that bad gut feeling when you honestly know what you have to do but you dont want to do it?

I felt that for yrs with my ex wife. Then I felt it with my rebound GF. So on and so forth until about a month ago there was a very cute girl I was seeing who was very sweetbeutiful etc... and just wanted someone to care for her. But she had been abused and had all the issues associated with it. Constantly needing my words of affirmation/therapy etc... The second I felt that gut feeling I decided to tell her when we were in private.

Made me feel like an asshole. A real POS. I still think its better than leading anyone on.

[Stealth]

Boom is exactly right - it's not at all about "getting her to come back." If I wanted that, I could make one phone call and talk her into coming back over.

But that would make me a selfish fucking piece of shit, which honestly, i've been being for a while now.

Xerces hit the nail on the head when he says: "You know that bad gut feeling when you honestly know what you have to do but you dont want to do it?"

I felt that feeling many months ago. Yet, instead of doing the right thing, I said what I needed to say to keep having sex with her and stringing her along even though I knew she would not be cool with having me as just a fuck buddy while i was fucking other girls, which I was doing all along.

Not cool at all. What I have been doing is some sort of recovering-AFC type shit. Be better than that, as I will be from now on. Do what Bay and Maestro do - tell them up front what the deal is. If you lose them, so be it.

[Maestro]

I believe Kramer was talking to Riddex, you narcisstic fuckers

If it's not an SNL, I say on every first date, exactly what's up. I frame it in a really positive way, and they are usually cool with it. In fact they appreciate the honesty.

If they aren't, who cares? There's always more bitches.

So why waste your time if they aren't up to your standard or lifestyle?

But if you know you aren't into them. It's almost cruel to keep their hopes up. Don't feel too bad though, we've all done it.

And in the end, you didn't make her do anything, she chose it of her own free will.

Plus, she's female, their hearts are made from liquid evil,

[Cupid]

It feels shitty but try not to be so hard on yourself and fall into that negative loop. Like Maestro said, everyone has done it before and it is taken as a learning experience.

You can only control the present and the future and you decided to stop stringing it along. It would still be going on if you decided not to do anything about it.

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Plus, she's female, their hearts are made from liquid evil,

Reminded me of "If you think you're equal to a girl, you're a pussy" - Steve P.

[Kaboom]

Might be doing the same thing here shortly.

After PX I realized that my gf is controlling, insecure, and can be a bit manipulative. Going to have a talk with her in a few days after she graduates. Don't want to end it but have a problem with her trying to control me.

Not trying to steal your thread, just wanted to say why your post resonants with me.