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my intro thread

Postby destion » Sun May 06, 2012 2:00 pm

Hi all,

This intro is a little late, after my first post to which Bravo kindly replied. I'm in my mid twenties still in school, starting graduate school in Boston starting September, so I'll be looking for Boston wings in the near future.

I was previously in PU a little bit, but recently got severe oneitis with a girl. To make a long story short, we dated for a year, I let her move in after six months (terrible idea) and I asked for a break six months after that which ended in our breakup. I was ready to marry this girl, but I started to get jealous, impulsive, angry and all around killed the relationship.

I'm now in a rebound which I feel I'll have to end soon.

What I want - I want a steady relationship I'm happy about. What rules to live by once you're in a relationship. I want to have options, and not be stuck holding my dick hoping that a girl cares about me. It's just a shitty feeling. I want to overcome the self-control issues I previously faced. I also want to learn how to balance my academic ambitions with my social life, as the last year I've done fuck-all but work hard in school.

Thanks and I'm looking forward to meeting you all and contributing.
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Re: my intro thread

Postby Bandit » Sun May 06, 2012 3:01 pm

Welcome to Forums!

You picked an awesome place, the guys here are great and very helpful. Be prepared for some tough love, we don't coddle anyone around here, but we will help motivate you to be your better self!

I highly recommend you check out the Flashchats, there is one tonight hosted by NSM and DJNinjaMusic.

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Welcome again, and I look forward to chatting with you.
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Re: my intro thread

Postby Aries » Mon May 07, 2012 5:23 am

Welcome to the forums brother!

The man in Boston to know is Taz, awesome muthafucker great game!

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Re: my intro thread

Postby SuperDave » Mon May 07, 2012 7:10 am

destion wrote:

I was previously in PU a little bit, but recently got severe oneitis with a girl. To make a long story short, we dated for a year, I let her move in after six months (terrible idea) and I asked for a break six months after that which ended in our breakup. I was ready to marry this girl, but I started to get jealous, impulsive, angry and all around killed the relationship.



Destion


I was in the same boat 5-6 years ago. I discovered the PU community and discovered it was more just just about picking up women but it was about building a better life. I was on a journey to better myself. Having met Bravo and many of the guys here personally, I will tell you that you are at the right place and so early in life to learn from so many awesome people.

Soak in all the knowledge you can, search the forums for questions you have, if you can't find the answers, then ask away. We will help anyways we can.

Welcome again.

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Re: my intro thread

Postby Bravo » Tue May 08, 2012 6:02 pm

welcome to the best PUA forum around

and thanks for intro post
Respectfully,
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Re: my intro thread

Postby destion » Tue May 08, 2012 9:33 pm

Thanks everybody, that was really warm. I look forward to good times!
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