You know this is an awesome place when you get welcomed by the owner himself
As a former Stylelifer, welcome! There are A LOT of great resources here, just have to go out, find it, and apply it. To get you started quickly, some advice:
Get in-field often. Experience is the best teacher, and what happens to you in-field will help you learn and calibrate quickly.
Along the way, post as many FRs of your interactions as possible, and keep an open mind to all of the feedback we give you, no matter how harsh it can sometimes be. After all, it's good for you if you want to grow. The guys here at the Bravohood are all very helpful in helping you get past your sticking points and calibrate better for next time.
Don't give up. There will times on this journey where you aren't getting numbers, aren't getting makeouts, not getting laid. Don't get discouraged; it's all part of the learning process that we go through that ultimately makes us better men.Attend the free flashchats
. You'll get real-time answers to your questions from the more advanced members of this community. I'm always at the Sunday class
Browse through the archives, you'll find a wealth of FREE information there, like
This is a GREAT start, but there's even more free information out there, just simply have to do your homework.
Mr. Charming wrote:Sticking points: Sober game. I am extremely comfortable going out to bars, getting buzzed or drunk and talking to everyone. Sober is a different story. Thats why when I am at starbucks/ mall, I just can't open. So I've decided I am just going to game sober at bars until I get to a decent level. I feel it shouldn't take long since I already have a lot of experience.
I also want to focus on more 8s 9s and 10s. And girls that are really that high haha. I can hook up with 6s and 7s and even some 8s. But I want to shoot for the creme de la creme. I still havea sticking point that Im not good enough for them, so thats something I am going to work on.
Small chunk it. I'm assuming you're comfortable opening sets while buzzed. Start small by opening sets while sober (especially the 8's-10's since those are the ones you are focusing on), then ejecting until you're comfortable going up to them and approaching. Then when that happens, add in a transition and DHV routine. Keep going until you've got a good routine stack that consistently hooks.Here's the mission I did to overcome hangups on approaching hot 9's-10's.
Looking forward to seeing you being active here and reading about your adventures!