Reflections from a white belt

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Reflections from a white belt

Postby mlags26 » Tue Aug 14, 2012 8:25 pm

So I've been gaming hard for over 2 months now..figured I'd give a few pointers to everyone else on my level..

AA is my bitch and it's completely non existent... :lol:

Few pointers on your stack:
Obviously the more you're in the field the better you will get with it.

I'm in b2b sales and do a lot of public speaking so naturally I like to rehearse the main points of what I want discuss.Took this habit with practicing my routine stack. I like to do it in front of the mirror so I can critique my body language and also helps build confidence. Helped a lot with WHAT THE FUCK DO I SAY NEXT syndrome. :?: I do this every night before I go out to game. Basically my little pregame pump up. I finish the pregame pump with, "tonight I am my own DHV, I am not afraid of rejection, and tonight I will approach every good looking girl in the building. Rejection will happen and if so, on to the next one."

My Current Stack:

Opener
really depends on the situation
Facebook Stalker/5 Oceans/Duck Face/Direct/Situational

Kino is huge and if you can start off within your opener it helps ALOT with comfort. Been trained to ready body language for sales and when you use kino they open up a lot quicker, even right to the attraction phase. Example they wont have their hands on their hips (attacking position) or arms crossed (defensive barrier) . Instead, she'll flip her hair, expose her neck, touch you back, wet her lips, or gently touch her self. Typically, a girl will do this on a subconscious level. Not often will a chick in her mid say, "oh hes hot let me wet my lips and start touching myself." Instead she'll say, "oh he's he's handsome (at the same time expose her neck or flip hair without even knowing).

Then move to the San Fransisco Hand Shake[/b] which I transfer into a [b]DHV story about traveling around the world. After that I'll wait for her to set herself up for DQ

If I'm in a dance club I'll lead the girl to the dance floor usually without asking. Easiest thing is to say, "come with me (grab her hand and go to the dance floor)."

From there I'll dance with the girl and see what happens 8-)

If I'm in bar or quieter atmosphere, I whip out the strawberry test or the 5 questions.
(I'm going to learn the cold drink read DHV for another weapon in my arsenal).

From this point on I make sure to maintain my frame and to NEVER qualify. If anything DQ her. She needs to KNOW that I only date the best of the best. :D

#close i type her name, in add a nick name as the last name, and hand her the phone.

For a kiss close or when I finger bang on the dance floor (favorite move) I let my intuition lead the way.

New Goals:
    Bring a chick back to my apartment.
    Date several girls (at one time).
    Buy monopoly (for strip monopoly).
    Get a few pics of the chicks I banged for my bravehood brothers!
    Stripper poll for my living room (still debating).
    Have the time of my life!

Sum things up:
    IMO Kino is HUGE!
    Maintain your frame - make it your DHV.
    PRACTICE! PRACTICE! PRACTICE! You will never fulfill your full capability sitting on a computer and relying on online game.
    Keep it simple and add things as the weeks go by.
    Listen to Jay z's song 99 problems
    Have FUN!

Past weekend, my best friend back in jersey complemented me on how he's noticed a change. Especially when I had the one cock-block call me an asshole in front of HBfrench nanny.

Hopefully this will help anyone out their still trying to figure out how to game plan or get the ball rolling. Any questions, feed backs, msg me or post as you will! ;)

Lags :D
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Re: Reflections from a white belt

Postby mlags26 » Tue Aug 14, 2012 9:04 pm

Forgot to mention, everything I say and do is 100% congruent with me.
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Re: Reflections from a white belt

Postby Whiz Kid » Tue Aug 14, 2012 11:03 pm

If you've learned all this in only two months your doing a hell of a good job. I'll comment more when I get to a PC
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Re: Reflections from a white belt

Postby kingdavid » Wed Aug 15, 2012 4:53 am

Your doing really well mlags26. Keep up the good work and you'll reach your goals. Haven't dated multiple women for awhile now and just getting back into the swing of it. You've made great progress and hope to be in the same place again soon.
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Re: Reflections from a white belt

Postby mlags26 » Wed Aug 15, 2012 8:07 am

Thanks all for the positive feedback...I wanna add one more goal...
Successfully set up d1 and d2s.

It's easier to get the number but to transition that attraction the following days is another skillet.
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Re: Reflections from a white belt

Postby fon311 » Wed Aug 15, 2012 7:07 pm

I thought I would put up the routine stack I'm using..helps to have it in writing

Openers: Trading hair opener, situational, you look like fun, horse girl, "indian accent"

Attraction/DHV: ring routine and then DHV about travels, hired/fired, cold read about personality (feisty, bad), 8 GFs/stalker, eyes dilate when attracted, fun/hot/smart, point system, fake occupation

Kino routines: hi5, thumb wresting, handshake, hug it out

DQ: keep forgetting to do this, will need to remember

If I can get a girl hooked and attracted then it's just balls to escalate
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Re: Reflections from a white belt

Postby fon311 » Wed Aug 15, 2012 7:35 pm

Thought I would go into more specifics: haven't actually thought about it in this way or order but might as well, may help my interactions

Rings routine and then DHV about travels and how I have to travel for my profession (joke about fake profession which will eventually DHV about my real occupation)
Are you fun..1-10 how fun are you..thumb wrestle/handshake
The way you thumb wrestle/handshake can totally tell you're a feisty one
Point system
Hired as tour guide or something then fire them -- throw in a hi5 somewhere
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Re: Reflections from a white belt

Postby mlags26 » Wed Aug 15, 2012 8:24 pm

fon311 wrote:DQ: keep forgetting to do this, will need to remember


I've always been told that I was a good ball buster by my friends. Took the opportunity to use it as my strength with DQ'n girls. So instead of just DQ'n out of no where, I wait for the HB to set herself up..

Example:

Me: Besides your looks, what else do you have going for you? (now she has to qualify herself, throw in a little kino)
HB: Well, I go to nursing school/I am a teacher/etc
Me: Nurses are bad news,there always clingers...(little tap on the shoulder)

After you DQ don't stall or make that awkward silence and make sure you're smiling. Then stack on..
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