Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

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Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby Gaider » Fri Aug 10, 2012 3:38 pm

My ex text me out of the blue late one night saying she misses me.
This makes us text now and then and she just stops.
She is just really blunt, seems not interested at all.

Shes done this before, so i just up and tell her im done, i suspect she playing games and call her up on it and that is that.

Shes out, i am out, texts me to see where i am. We meet, go for a drink alone, she comes to my place and we have sex. Before sex though we have a drunken heart to heart. Talk about why the relationship failed, she goes on to tell me that im gorgeous and how shes surprised i'd look at a girl like her ( i too wonder that at times), and overrall she hints at me to like want to meet up again, says she'd love another go of it.....right?

so then after that its same business as usual, blunt texts.
Shes a DJ, shes getting some big gigs, i ask when she is free and she replies bluntly....

'Im busy hun'

I press forward

she says ' Yeah, got lots of work to do, busy busy busy..

No offer to meet up at an alternative time or any explanation, so im like ' too busy to meet up?'
So then i tell her straight ' Well thats fine, im not gonna invest my time in you if you cant do the same though so i guess there is no point really, look i wish you well."

its true. I dont want a girl who i can just sleep with on HER terms, fuck that. Although i cant see no queue im sure there is, of girls who are willing to invest a lot more energy into me then this. And besides, its bullshit, you can make time and if you really can't, you could just be up front and straight instead of waiting for a response....She failed MY shit test, totally unattractive qualities i picked up.

Fuck that, Gaider only fucks girls of value now.

No response yet, however even if she is all apologetic and such i do not care. She has had more than 1 opportunity, i suspect she is playing games, getting with me to 'see if she can' kinda thing. Its just confusing because the shit that came out her mouth like how she fell in love with me, never felt like that since her first love, blah blah... i think shes just doing it for kicks because her actions arent showing it.

I guess i pushed her and it started a pull reaction. It doesn't matter though, im done with her. She is just one pussy in a very very very very veeeeeeery large alleyway. I'm not gonna be a dog and chase it, oooh no...i'm no dog, i'm catnip, or at least sticking in the game will make me it.

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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby Techfall » Fri Aug 10, 2012 4:25 pm

Stop talking to her.

Period.

Shes an ex for a reason. As cliche as that saying is.
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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby Gaider » Fri Aug 10, 2012 4:41 pm

True man.
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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby S D » Fri Aug 10, 2012 5:56 pm

What tech says.

What she is doing is trying to get validation from you. When you text her she doesn't respond and sits there and she justifies that you are so into her. When you stopped responding to her texts she looks for your validation by suggesting a meet up. At the meetip you guys talk about the relationship, have sex, and begin texting her again giving her a major dose of validation and now she sees you chasing her and she feels extremely hot and validated because (this is bitch logic of course) you are trying to
Have another go of it.

She is an attention whore. Don't talk to her.
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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby S D » Fri Aug 10, 2012 6:14 pm

This is recycled from what boom told me and has really helped me out when dealing with exes
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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby JoeBlack » Fri Aug 10, 2012 7:45 pm

Yeah bro just let it be, like you said quality from now on. Dont be one of those guys that will take whatever he can get, your not about "getting lucky" mentality, you have standards, you pick and chose, not the other way around. Remember we're the hunters.-JB
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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby Gaider » Sat Aug 11, 2012 11:33 am

Thanks guys.
Yeah come to think of it, The satisfaction of turning her down is more satisfying then the sex.
Obviously the sex must not be that good! haha.

Speaking of sex, i've never had a girl who been on the same page when it comes to that.
You ever feel like you 'knock it out the park' when u have sex with a girl, she doesn't know what to do afterwards, she cant walk, she can hardly speak....ive never had a girl return the favour.

I'm going to keep a weather eye on the horizon, see if theres any superwomen out there.
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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby Xerces » Sun Aug 12, 2012 8:08 pm

You need to find yourself a little freak. I have had girls fuck my brains out, wake me up with blow jobs and tried to get me to fuck them in public etc...

There out there trust me.
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Re: Ex playing games. I walk away. Your thoughts?

Postby Gaider » Thu Aug 16, 2012 11:07 am

That is refreshing to know!
Now that there is wife material haha.

im gonna make myself a promise that i wont settle for anything less then a freak. The meaning of life is to basically have the best time before you die, life is a gift afterall.
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