I wouldn't have put up with it for this long, saying she loves you but no sex? Fuck that.
I have a rotation of about 4 girls right now, it's amazing how many problems fix themselves when you've got options. Naturally non-needy, coming from an abundance frame etc
The guys make a good point about nexting her, or at least date other women to build jealousy.
Don't let one girl get you like this, I see it a lot with newer guys, and I've been there too. The key for me has been having a solid group of chicks in the rotation. I have 4 dates this weekend with 3 different women, I really don't care if any of them flake because I'll call someone else if I still want to do something.
See the difference in attitude which makes me more attractive to all of them because I GENUINELY don't care all that much?
Go out, meet new people and show her what she's missing.
“Master your instrument, Master the music, and then forget all that bullshit and just play.”