Need help with teases!!!

[rydgehp]

Alright there's just chic that iv been trying to fuck for months now and the first night I tried I was so close but she was super wasted and started feeling sick and so it didn't happend then for the past few monthes its strange almost like we are working backward and everytime we are together now all I can do is kiss it's fucking annoying and we are slowly growing apart and I don't want that to happend and she has been in love with me for a long time so that might be the problem idk so please help!

[Cupid]

Main problem I see- Your spending way too much time on one girl and getting nothing out of it... ie no sex, not improving your game, etc

Also sounds like your not pulling the trigger quick enough. Pull the trigger way before she gets shit faced.

[rydgehp]

Yeah man I realize that and think about it a lot but Im not one of those people who quits and she thinks she has me whipped and I guess I a way she does due to the fact I even care

[rydgehp]

Should I just be completely honest and call her out on it or play it through

[Cupid]

Playing it through = wasting more of your valuable time and energy

You can call her out with a playful way - but - I would next her and move on to other women. Too many opportunities out there.

[rydgehp]

Touché thanks man

[Xerces]

Fake it til you make it basically. Its easy for people who are a bit further than you to say next her drop her etc...(I do agree with Cupid though)
Until you have enough skill and reference experiences for any one girl to not matter as much it can be quite hard. But think of it this way, what your doing isnt working right? Maybe you should do exactly what the guys here are saying? It can seem quite counter intuitive at times but it does work.

[Science]

You say all you do us kiss but are you trying to escalate, get her to your room etc?

Basically - is she shutting you down or are you not leading?

[rydgehp]

She shuts me down everytime when I try she says she's has to go do something or meet someone or some shit like that

[Science]

I wouldn't have put up with it for this long, saying she loves you but no sex? Fuck that.

I have a rotation of about 4 girls right now, it's amazing how many problems fix themselves when you've got options. Naturally non-needy, coming from an abundance frame etc

The guys make a good point about nexting her, or at least date other women to build jealousy.

Don't let one girl get you like this, I see it a lot with newer guys, and I've been there too. The key for me has been having a solid group of chicks in the rotation. I have 4 dates this weekend with 3 different women, I really don't care if any of them flake because I'll call someone else if I still want to do something.

See the difference in attitude which makes me more attractive to all of them because I GENUINELY don't care all that much?

Go out, meet new people and show her what she's missing.