dealing with one night stands

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dealing with one night stands

Postby S D » Wed Mar 21, 2012 11:57 am

I generally go to the same bars and places to pick up women and there are times when I run into a girl that I had a strict one night stand with, where there is absolutely no contact afterward, no response to their texts, calls, etc. Generally they stare at me... a lot and they seem furious. (am looking forward to the day when I get slapped). How do you deal with them? Should I be informing them that they are a one night stands?
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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby DJNinja » Wed Mar 21, 2012 12:06 pm

Why were they just one night stands? Were they not good in the sack?

If they were lousy, then just ignore them. You deserve better than what they put out.

If they were great, why limit yourself to one night? Why not build some comfort and turn them into on-call fuckbuddies?
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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby Rogue4Life » Wed Mar 21, 2012 1:16 pm

If it's a girl that you don't want to see anymore. (Assuming this since you said "strict ONS")



Ignore her and do your thing.
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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby S D » Wed Mar 21, 2012 5:14 pm

I enjoy one night stands with girls I meet at bars. Party girls are troublesome to say the least and from past experience I have found that they are absolutely insane and shouldn't be dealt with on a regular basis such as a fuck buddy. I deal with them as a hit and quit and was wondering if there is a way to be honest about this.

This particular one hid her clothes in my apartment, snored for the hour she was here asleep, wouldn't leave when the cab came, and overall she just pissed me off.

solid advice I did ignore her and went to a different bar but so much awkward tension.
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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby The Outlaw » Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:36 am

I think at least one text the next day is appropriate, just to say you had a nice time, but anything after that is not necessary.

I think this allows them to not feel guilty about their behavior and allows them to continue this behavior with other guys, which I think we are all wanting at times...guilt free sex with no strings attached...we all do get horny.
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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby Taz » Wed Apr 04, 2012 11:32 pm

My advice: always leave women better than you got them so you don't polute the pool and hurt future brotherin!

How? Ensure you are completely honest, give the best damn sex possible, and don't be a total asshole

I'm still friends with tons of women I've had sex with and we still talk from time to time..

Why? Bc I gave them the time of their life and was honest about what I wanted

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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby McGee » Sat Apr 14, 2012 9:47 pm

I go right up and apologize. Women appreciate a sensitive man.

I tell them, I see you staring at me, and I'm guessing its because you think I'm my brother. We're twins and he's kind of an ass sometimes. I love him, but he can be very selfish.

Then I have another one night stand with them. Except, its the second night. Hahahaha. So jokes on them.
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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby Bay » Sat Apr 14, 2012 11:04 pm

Fuck that. I dp w my twin.

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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby lego_5858 » Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:42 am

Why would you apolagize for a one night stand?

Especially if they enjoyed it and you didn't.

Do girls apolagize to you for bad sex, doubt it and they tell other girls your bad too.

Obviously it wasn't good enough for you to go back, hence one night stand.
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Re: dealing with one night stands

Postby McGee » Sun Apr 15, 2012 1:51 am

Bay wrote:Fuck that. I dp w my twin.

Pussy.


I don't actually have a brother. But if I did.......


Whooooo that would be hot. And what a mind fuck for the girl.

Especially when she's in the middle.
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