Don't put up with her shit

[Bay]

True story bravo

And the Abundance mentality and moving on is better than drama and shit

[Fame]

This is just me, but if you don't want a commited relationship, she should be your last resort, your booty call if you didn't get any that night, because otherwise you're going to get attached. I fucked up my "have sex with anyone" because I was content banging one girl instead of several and than we were banging every day and eventually it just became what it was, a relationship, if she's getting more attached, it's probably because you're treating her like a commited girlfriend.

I mean we've all been taught that women crave security, labeling what you have is security for her. Might want to find a way to make her feel more secure with what you have without labeling it.

[Fame]

***note, if you're dating a girl, and you're not fucking or at the very least gaming other girls, that's an exclusive relationship on your part. You don't want a label, don't act like a boyfriend, at all, period. It's hard to do.

I have my regrets with my relationship, I enjoy being with my girl, but I don't like feeling tied down, and I feel tied down more than ever, not just with other girls, but with my life. I'm on a lease, in cali, I fucking hate cali now, I want more than anything to move, but man relationships can be brutal and can put your plans on hold. If this is the road you're heading down, I would advise stay off it. That being said it has it's up sides aswell.

[Bay]

Bottomline, do the mature thing. If you don't want long term and u feel her pushing hard

Cut her off

[Bay]

That is given the caveat I know u have already tried to show her that people can have healthy primary relationships and still have occasional sex w other people

I have a link to an article u may not have read let me dig it up, maybe she can read it and back off

[Bay]

http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 4210553038

[Taz]

FAme, I game women everywhere I go..its in my nature now

Bravo- Thats good advice...guess we just got to be worst in bed lol

Thanks guys!

All very true advice! HAve not read that article Bay, will do!

Like you bay, I am going to let it roll, she still is apologizing for her actions last week, so maybe I really got to her or maybe not...

Johnny also suggested that if I start to feel like this constantly, then its better to cut off the relationship then try and make it work.

What have I learned?

Not to put up with any bullshit, I set the guideline at the beginning, then I got too complacent in between and let those guidelines slack.

We do a lot of cool shit together, and the sex is awesome if not some of the best I have had in my lifetime.... But, if she continues to pull this bullshit tied-down crap, Its over and she knows this as it is what i told her the other night.

BEcause of this I started sexting and getting numbers again....so much fun

[Fame]

Just throwing this out there, I had a female fuck buddy, she refused to kiss on the lips, I didn't ever get attached to her like I did other girls. It's probably a little late to incorperate that though.

[thelocal]

Been with current girl now since November...

Went out with a big group on Saturday

After we got home she tried to pull some bull shit girl move about where this relationship is going ect, and that she thinks I don't like her enough blah blah blaj

Told her, If she doesn't think I'm doing a good job, walk right out and never come back bc I don't give a shit and that I'm a man who don't play games

2 minutes later we were fucking like animals

Simple lesson : just cause you are in a relationship doesn't mean you let your guard down.. I'm me, and this is who I am..take it or leave it!!

Dude you know what!!.You are so fucking right!!!..I tried to play nice with my last ex but it just fucked me over more