Neil Strauss Iphone App: Better Man

[Valmont]

Did the one the other day about the Weather. Easily done, led into conversation with a girl I was introduced too by a friend.

[Science]

Other day?

How about today?

[Valmont]

Had to base a personality aspect of a character or role model you like and then act like them in conversation. I think the lesson was to show you that you can improve yourself drastically and say ythings without people judging you for it. Chose Hank Moody cause he has an awesome cocky funny rapport.

[Science]

Had to base a personality aspect of a character or role model you like and then act like them in conversation. I think the lesson was to show you that you can improve yourself drastically and say ythings without people judging you for it. Chose Hank Moody cause he has an awesome cocky funny rapport.

And how did the conversation go?

[Valmont]

Latest mission was to walk up to a HB and ask if her name was Jenny. Did this after a few drinks, felt that this was cheating but oh well it's over. I get that the whole point of this level is opening but can't wait till when I'm past it. Getting to boredom point. wll see.

[Science]

I think the challenges are too small.

Complete the mission and set your own ones. If you don't I will, and they're gonna be TOUGH

'Hi, i'm Valmont and i'm really thinking about getting into S&M. I can't get my dick hard unless something is wrapped tightly round my neck, and i'm struggling to breathe. What do you think about that?'

[Valmont]

Ahaha they're gonna get harder, I think after tomorrow I move into the next level.

This one was get someones opinion on how to talk to another girl in the bar. I think it's to teach you that there's nothing wrong with admiting a girls hot, maybe using a wing?? So I did, the guy said he could put a word in for me if I wanted but I said it's cool I can handle it. Thought it would DLV like a motherfucka but it was just to complete the mission so it's fine.

[Science]

I think you could have made it work if you were playful with it.

'yeah totally, I was TERRIFIED of speaking to you, I mean FUCK, you're ALMOST as hot as me! '

Are you coming to Brighton next Friday?

[Status]

I recently killed my AA in one day - and I'll tell you how I did it.

Fuck some Mr. Moviephone bullshit - that just ain't my style. Suck it up, go to a mall somewhere, maybe even a different town if that helps you - KNOW that you are never going to see these people again, and that it doesn't matter.

Memorize these three sentances.

"Wow...you look absolutely phenomenal.....How many boyfriends do you have, I'm going to guess 4"

If she says "Just one"

Say "I have a goldfish, you and I have a lot in common" and smile, kinda like a smart ass smirk.


The point of that excercise isn't to get a SNL or anything like that, but to show you - You can say almost anything to a girl, it doesn't really matter. You think you feel anxious? A total stranger just came up to her with the balls, confidence, and FRAME to tell her strait up she was attractive and go right for what he wants with no beating around the bush - NO GUY DOES THAT. She's going to be thrown for a loop - and all of a sudden, it feels kinda powerful when a girl starts blushing stuttering stammering and giving you her phone number even though she has a boyfriend.

You can try it if you like, let me know how it goes.

I will say though - after doing that ALL DAY, I don't fear the approach anymore at all.

[Valmont]

Status, you're completely right. I'm going to do this. But I would have to go to another place to feel comfortable doing that. I will. I am determined.

Yet, also this thread is just on the app, so I will carry on updating.

I did the latest mission, say Hi to women in certain outfits. Was easy enough, yet working on a bar I talk to people all night so I made sure it was more than a "Hi what would you like to drink." style thing. Did it, no problem. Onto Level 2 now, curious as to what that entails.