Don't put up with her shit

[Taz]

Been with current girl now since November...

Went out with a big group on Saturday

After we got home she tried to pull some bull shit girl move about where this relationship is going ect, and that she thinks I don't like her enough blah blah blaj

Told her, If she doesn't think I'm doing a good job, walk right out and never come back bc I don't give a shit and that I'm a man who don't play games

2 minutes later we were fucking like animals

Simple lesson : just cause you are in a relationship doesn't mean you let your guard down.. I'm me, and this is who I am..take it or leave it!!

[Ice]

lol - good advice. I like the way you put that.

[Bay]

its all about saying what you want.

and making her cool w that, if not she can bail

HOWEVER, and correct me if I am wrong, i think you said this is how your relationship rules is set;

-you can fuck girls together
-you can fuck other girls by yourself to get your pussy fix
-but she isnt allowed fuck other guys....

OBVIOUSLY that shows she wants more from you... and its a set up for hurting her and fucking things up... i think farmer is going thru this too.


now if its only you and her fucking other girls together or both parties are free to have secondary fuck buddies, that seems more not to fuck with peoples feelings. BUT silly girls get all attached to guys they fuck, they just cannot help it... so then your in for the shit if she starts regularly fucking someone else

currently i am feeling my girl pushing me for more as well, even though she still completely agrees we are never getting married, never having kids, and can have threesomes.

[Bay]

currently w my girl i am content having her, exploring sex stuff, having threesomes and having her their watching me fuck other girls with her

if she cant fuck other guys and your off fucking other girls then the trust factor breaks down and then its no longer fun

i think u have to decide with her if you want to go a little deeper with her or back off and risk losing her some.

[Taz]

She is allowed to fuck other guys but doesn't choose too

We haven't had a 3some in a bit actually...

I think like you are saying she's wanting more commitment

But, I'm just living life right now...

Going on a trip to Jamaica together and we do tons of shit together I might have to re-valuatw the boundaries again here real soon

[Xerces]

This could probably be a huge thread on its own but, I have attempted relationships laying out similar ground rules myself.

Not finding any women who are ok with this. So have been single quite awhile.

How is this done correctly? I dont lie to girls and wont run darkside game behind a GF but also want to keep experiencing new things.

[Taz]

I believe it's bc I let my guard down somewhere in our relationship thus far..

I got to complacent and use to the way things are and her being a very independent woman tried to tighten up the ropes

I noticed this real fast and wasn't letting it happen

In my opinion, the ground rules must be set from the start and you must follow and stick with those rules

A relationship should not take much work, the moment you are working too hard is the moment you are failing somewhere in the relatinship

[Taz]

I believe it's bc I let my guard down somewhere in our relationship thus far..

I got to complacent and use to the way things are and her being a very independent woman tried to tighten up the ropes

I noticed this real fast and wasn't letting it happen

In my opinion, the ground rules must be set from the start and you must follow and stick with those rules

A relationship should not take much work, the moment you are working too hard is the moment you are failing somewhere in the

We sat down together and addressed some possible issues , and found that we haven't been spending " quality time" to connect, thus why no 3somes

This is why we are going to Jamaica together and we started sexting, playing with toys again and all the fun stuff

This shit is new to me as well, so I'll probably be posting a lot in these topics

[Bay]

The way I can relate now is my gf is wawonting to move in, and despite having her reiterate to me how there is no further progression of our relationship she is trying to paint me as the bad guy for not letting her move in.

To her its like why not, were together a ton anyway and would save lots of $$

To me... Well obviously want some space

I'm going to cut her loose in the next month and move on if any shit over this continues

[Bravo]

from my MMA forum

Since a woman's crazy switch is located directly inside her vagina, you have GOT to stop hitting that. She will equate sex with a relationship