its all about saying what you want.
and making her cool w that, if not she can bail
HOWEVER, and correct me if I am wrong, i think you said this is how your relationship rules is set;
-you can fuck girls together
-you can fuck other girls by yourself to get your pussy fix
-but she isnt allowed fuck other guys....
OBVIOUSLY that shows she wants more from you... and its a set up for hurting her and fucking things up... i think farmer is going thru this too.
now if its only you and her fucking other girls together or both parties are free to have secondary fuck buddies, that seems more not to fuck with peoples feelings. BUT silly girls get all attached to guys they fuck, they just cannot help it... so then your in for the shit if she starts regularly fucking someone else
currently i am feeling my girl pushing me for more as well, even though she still completely agrees we are never getting married, never having kids, and can have threesomes.
Arizona stripper: You are a really blessed guy to have good looks, an education, and a big beautiful penis"
Not being an asshole - just giving you some tough love