Texting 101...

[Casanova]

Taz thanks for all your help with textanese!

I hate texting though, Even though I'm only 22 I guess I'm a chip off the old block and still prefer the telephone.


This is my 10th post btw, does that mean I'm inducted into the Bravohood?

Cheers!
Casanova

[Casanova]

Also, at work I number closed a girl who was from a different company at the event.


I'm using this thread as my texting lifeline b/c to be honest, I suck royal fat rhinoceros d*ck when it comes to texting seduction.

Cheers!
Casanova

[Taz]

Casanova! Welcome..and stop saying you suck big fat dick, unless you do! We here at the Bravohood like to think of success rather than failure!

So stop thinking negatively and instead think positively as you are about to become the next world class seducer!

[Casanova]

True! gotta keep the positive energy flowing.

I actually think i screwed up with this girl.

Text goes like this:

Me: what sorta trouble you causing
Her: haha what?
Me: i'm bored, let's go to Vegas......

No response.

I think I came off too strong.

Any suggestions?

Cheers!
Casanova

[Killo]

How long are you currently wainting for the reponse? Don't panic.

Well I would have done it this way:
Me: what sorta trouble you causing
Her: haha what?
Me: You know what I'm talking about

With a smiley you can show that you aren't serious. With a text message it's really hard to show emotions, so use smileys.

[Xerces]

First off listen to Taz. Especially on texting.

If a text or interaction goes wrong I wait two days then go direct. Basically hey-Whatever the situation was I still want to see you call me.

Then thats it.

[Casanova]

How long are you currently wainting for the reponse? Don't panic.

2 days so far, the first two texts were rapid fire. I probably cheeped her out with the whole let's go to Vegas and get married by the fattest Elvis impersonator we can find..lol. It's all good though, haven't lost any sleep over it.

Well I would have done it this way:
Me: what sorta trouble you causing
Her: haha what?
Me: You know what I'm talking about

atta boy! Imma do that next time. I was just about to call her then I decided I gotta work on my texting game. I don't really like texting though, feels kind of fake. (Although I do love social media).

First off listen to Taz. Especially on texting.

(Very helpful forum, THANKS TAZ!)

If a text or interaction goes wrong I wait two days then go direct. Basically hey-Whatever the situation was I still want to see you call me.

I will give it a try and see what happens!

Then thats it.

easy as 1,2,3

[Bandit]

[quote="Casanova"
atta boy! Imma do that next time. I was just about to call her then I decided I gotta work on my texting game. I don't really like texting though, feels kind of fake. (Although I do love social media).
[/quote]

Personally, I love texting because it allows me time to think about the best possible response. If a girl and I are texting, and I don't respond for 10 minutes....not a big deal....if a girl and I are talking on the phone and I go silent for 10 seconds and then say something witty...I look like a fucking tool LOL

[Casanova]

True in that regard it's great, however we as people don't talk the way we write so at some point I'm going to meet up with the girl for date 2, i'm going to have to try and keep up with the way I seemed over text messaging which for me personally is a little hard.

In either case there is what to be said about text messaging

Cheers!
Casanova

P.S. Tomorrow night is sarge night! Looking forward to a good FR and maybe an LR if things are going my way!

[Bandit]

True in that regard it's great, however we as people don't talk the way we write so at some point I'm going to meet up with the girl for date 2, i'm going to have to try and keep up with the way I seemed over text messaging which for me personally is a little hard.

In either case there is what to be said about text messaging

Cheers!
Casanova

P.S. Tomorrow night is sarge night! Looking forward to a good FR and maybe an LR if things are going my way!

Everything you do needs to be congruent. Your texts MUST be congruent with your frame or it will not make sense. You can't lightly kino a girl with no sex talk and then have your third text to her be about throat fucking her. It doesn't jive.

Taz's advice on texting is solid, but you can't just copy and paste what he/other put up here and expect it to do all of the work. If you are going sexual or cocky/funny with the texts to her, you should be projecting the same frame when you first #closed her, and the same frame on D2-9

Congruency in ALL of the elements of PU is key.